Unfolding a Blessing

     For whatever reason, I am not doing very well this year remembering birthdays and holidays where a certain person is supposed to be honored in time to mail a card and/or a gift.  So, today (even though it is almost over), I want to honor my mom.  She has been a HUGE blessing in my life and is a great example of a selfless woman.

     In 1968, my mom got pregnant with my brother, but she wasn't married.  My brother is 43 years old.  Our mom chose LIFE!  Of course, my brother and I fought likes cats and dogs while we grew up, but we are very good friends now; and I am thankful that he is my brother.  Our mom and biological father were married before Gerry was born and had another baby a year later...ME!

     Ten months after I entered the world, our father decided he couldn't handle being a dad or a husband, so he split.  Imagine being 23 years old and having two children under the age of 2 and your husband leaves you, not just leaves you but completely disappears off the face of the earth.  What did my mom do?  She chose to raise us on her own.  Her mother and father watched us some weekends, but she didn't have them raise us.  She did that.  She was alone with us for almost five more years until she got remarried to my stepdad, aka "dad."

     My mom was on welfare those first years, but she was made to pay it all back. When I was 10 (I think maybe 8, I can never remember), she went through the trouble of going to court to have our father declared legally dead.  Because of that, my brother and I received a trust fund from our grandfather, so were able to go to college.  We wouldn't have been able to otherwise.  My mom worked most of our school years as a seamstress out of our house.  I never learned how to sew because I always depended on her to do my sewing.  I still do.

     Throughout my entire life, she has supported me.  She raised me to respect people, to be honest, to be myself.  As most children do, I rebelled.  I walked away from a lot of the advice and teaching, but I came back.  Even during the difficult years, she was there.  Boy was she patient!

    Now that I have my own kids, I often hear myself saying something that sounds like what my mom would have said.  My kids will do or say something that reminds me of when I was a kid.  I am able to say that I have had a great life, and I am thankful that God gave me the mom that he did.  Happy Mother's Day, Mom!

The Case of the Missing Keys

    A little over two weeks ago, I realized that I had lost my mail key.  It was on my key chain with my car and house keys by a smaller cheap key ring.  It fell off somewhere, but I didn't have any idea where.  The loss of my key was cause for concern, on my part, that somebody might be able to steal my mail, but I believed that it would eventually show up.

    While sharing prayer requests at Bible study two weeks ago, I asked for prayer that my mail key would show up.  Amanda shared that she had lost her car key.  This is a key of greater concern, not just because someone could steal your car but because those remote keys are more than $100 to replace.  Jenn shared that she had lost her mail key as well.  I told them I firmly believed they'd just show up.  Things like that happen all the time.

    On Monday at Bible study, Amanda told me that she had thought about me the day before.  She shared the story of how she had gone for a bike ride with her family and, upon arriving back home, took the keys she had taken with her back on the key rack.  She noticed that there was another set of keys hanging there - her keys she had lost.  She asked her husband where he had found them, but he denied ever finding them.  They were just there.

    That evening, I asked Jenn if she had found her mail key.  Sure enough, her husband had found it buried somewhere in their van.  Now it was my turn.  I still believed it would turn up somewhere but was okay if didn't.

    Today, Paige wanted to go play outside.  I told her we could go to the park at the amenities center when I was done making pizza dough (my first attempt at being frugal).  The first game we played was a little like jai alai, a wiffle ball and scoops.  Since I have recently started looking for change everywhere I go, I was spending a lot of time looking at the ground as I retrieved the ball.  (Thankfully, I wasn't very good at catching it.)  Once when I bent over to pick up the ball, I noticed something above the toes of my left foot - my mail key.  The cheap key ring was rusted, but the key was intact.  

    Paige and I had been to the park two and a half weeks ago for a birthday party.  It fell off my key chain then without me noticing.  Within that time, the field had been mowed, three days of torrential rainfall and tornado warnings had occurred, countless people had used the field for their own recreation, but there it was - my mail key.  The kids were so excited to go to the mailbox and make sure it was ours.  Sure enough, it was!

    I love having faith that things will work out.  I love watching God work in the big and little things.  My key is securely on my key ring now.  I am no longer using that cheap key ring.  I can't wait for the next opportunity to have great faith and share it.

Just Believe!!!

Papa's Pearls' Review

TRULY AMAZING!!!

I couldn't wait until I was able to write the review for this product.  Papa's Pearls is one of the most amazing books I've ever read.  Diane Flynn Keith shares pearls of wisdom that her father shared with her and her family until the day he died.  His story in itself would have made a superb read, but the wisdom and insight that he shared will add so much to my own life and the lives of my children.  I am so glad that Mrs. Keith wrote this book.  I want to purchase a copy for every friend I have so that they can read it over and over again.

I started out reading it myself, figuring I'd store up the wisdom to use as I parent my own children.  I got to the bottom of just page 2 when I started using things from Papa's life with my family.  When he was a child, Papa was forced to write his multiplication tables as punishment, in turn becoming a math whiz.  My daughter was struggling with her tables, so when a punishment needed handed down for something she had done we had her do multiplication tables.  She now knows them.

With each chapter I read, I was more encouraged.  I began sharing some of the amazing stories with my small group at church, with friends from our homeschool co-op, and whoever else I could when the opportunity arose.  One of the stories was of Papa telling his family to look for treasures wherever they went.  Two of his grandchildren began to put money they found lying around while they were out in a jar.  At the end of a year, they had collected almost $430.  I decided to start my own jar the day John (my husband) and I walked to the grocery store and I found 36 cents.  I started that jar on April 28.  I probably only have $1.00 or so, but it's a start.  It's fun to find coins just lying around.  I do feel like a treasure hunter.  I've found more money just keeping my eyes open than I did with my metal detector.

While working with our youth group one Wednesday evening a few weeks ago, I shared the story of when Papa was sent to a continuation school where delinquents went to school.  In his mind, it was the worst thing that could have happened to him at the time, but it ended up being one of the best things.  He learned a trade there which he used to start his own business years later.  I encouraged the kids to understand that things that seem to be negative while they are happening are often used by God to grow us and teach us.  We can often look back at negative things and see how God used them for his purposes.

Sometime after I had finished the book, I was working with Paige on her schoolwork.  She was complaining about math, so I read to her the chapter entitled, "'Ya Gotta Do What Ya Gotta Do' and 'Tell Yourself You Like It.'"  A few days later, she had been sent to bed early, so I began reading the book to her from the beginning.  I figured she would benefit from Papa's insight.  I read two chapters that night.  Every night since she has begged me to read more of the book.  She wants me to read it to her brothers and have her dad read it.  It is amazing how much of an impact one man's life can have on others.  I obviously didn't know him, but I am thankful for him.  How amazing it would have been to be the child or grandchild of a man so wise and loving!

There are only 112 pages in this short book.  It sells for $13.47 for the paperback through Amazon or $6.97 as a Kindle book through Amazon.  You can click through Papa's Pearls to Amazon.  You can also order an autographed copy for $14.97 from Papa's Pearls with $7.00 shipping and handling.  The wisdom contained within this book makes it priceless, in my opinion.  I highly recommend it.  It was not written as a parenting book, per se, but I tell people it is the best parenting book I've ever read.

Goodness, I don't know what else to say.  People need to read this.  I believe there will be something that speaks to you and makes you want to be a better person.

Am I the Only One?

     I love to read blogs and Facebook posts written by people who have tips for being frugal or by Homesteading/Survivalism.  They always have so many great ideas.  There are those who can their fruits and vegetables and those who make homemade bread.  They never buy processed food, and their family always eats healthy food.

     Am I the only one who wishes I was like these people?  I have moments of inspiration when I will buy a large block of yeast thinking I will forever more make my own bread and end up only making one thing with the yeast.  The rest of it goes bad before I gather up enough motivation to use it again.  For Christmas one year, I asked for and received The Encyclopedia of Country Living by Carla Emery.  I look through it and think, "Oh, if only I were that practical and knowledgeable."  I've thought of selling it, but I just can't bring myself to do it.  I live vicariously through the book and daydream what it would be like to be a homesteader.

     I want to eat organic, but it costs too much.  I want to garden, but I don't have the motivation to plant, weed, or wait.  I often think about what life was like for those who lived in colonial times or even in the middle of the 19th century.  Granted, life was probably harder without all of the conveniences we have like running water and refrigeration, but in some aspects I'm sure it was better.  There was no worrying about processed food or plastics or how much gasoline cost.

     I know God had a plan for putting me on earth when he did, so I'm not going to say I was born in the wrong era; but I want to taste a bit more of a simple life.  I want to save money.  I want to spend more time with my kids.  I want to raise them to be respectful and godly adults.  There's got to be a way to get to where I want to be in my role as a homemaker.  I need to take it one step at a time.  Maybe I'll take some baby steps and blog about it.  Maybe there will be a noticeable difference after I give myself a year.  Hmm, that gives me an idea.  I will try to come up with a list of frugal or homesteader-type ideas and put them into practice and come back with updates.

     If you have suggestions for the steps I could take, please pass them on.  

Home School in the Woods: Great Empires Review

Home School in the Woods is a company that has a real passion for teaching kids history through hands-on learning.  We had the opportunity to review their Great Empires activity study, which is recommended for the elementary grades.  Below are some examples of what is included in this study.

This study is very inexpensive considering the amount of information and activities it contains.  It is $18.95 for the downloadable version and $19.95 for the CD version.  We used the downloadable version.
I love these types of studies where there is a wealth of information but also many hands-on activities to reinforce what is being learned.  There are maps, recipes, booklets, crafts, research, reading, etc.  This is the way I put together my own classes when I teach.  I did choose to not print out some activities but only a few. They were either crafts for which I did not have the supplies or some writing assignments I didn't feel my daughter had to do since there were so many other things included with each empire.
I printed out the pages I wanted from each empire we studied, used a 3-hole punch on them, and put them in a binder.  The activities like the small books my daughter created were put in the pockets in the front and back of the binder.  Here is a picture of her binder.  The directions call for colored card stock, but I chose to just print out everything on regular copy paper.

This activity study consists of the empires of Ancient Greece, Egypt, Rome, and China; the Arab-Muslim, Mongolian, Viking, Spanish, French, English, German, Japanese, and Russian empires; and the United States of America.
Paige said, "It was cool that they gave us recipes.  I also learned about the dynasties.  I didn't know what they were before we did this study."  She did not like all the cutting that needed to be done or doing the maps.  I, personally, did not think there was too much of either, but she does not like to do those things.
We did each of the empires in a day or two, never more.  I would read the information pages to Paige while she worked on the map.  There is a lot of information given about each empire.  For a child who is younger, I would think you would definitely want to take 2-3 days per empire so that most of the information isn't lost on them because there is so much.  It would just work better to break it up for them.  I really like how things that are learned in one empire are reiterated in another empire, e.g., when Hannibal fought with the Romans against Spain.
More time can be spent on each empire, if you choose.  There is a great framework   provided.  Additional books can be read, which are suggested.  With 18 empires, this could easily be a year-long course for an elementary student.
Some other products that were reviewed by our Crew were the Hands-On History Lap-Pak: The 20th Century in America and the Hands-On History Activity-Pak: Composers.  Another activity study like the Great Empires that is provided by Home School in the Woods is The History of Holidays.  I think I might have to check this one out, too!!  

Writing with Sharon Watson Review

I have usually stressed fiction writing with my oldest, who is now in ninth grade.  When he was in elementary school, we did thank you letters, business letters, etc., but, once he got old enough to do longer writing, we focused on fiction writing.  Now that he is in high school and has to be thinking about college essays and SAT essays, it is time to buckle down and really learn how to write non-fiction writing well.  This is where Writing with Sharon Watson comes in.  She has an amazing book called The Power in Your Hands: Writing Non-Fiction in High School that teaches persuasive writing, expository writing, descriptive writing, and narration.  

Sharon Watson homeschooled her children for 18 years and has taught writing in various capacities.  She understands the frustration that some students have with writing and explains things very clearly in this book.  It is 410 pages and is chock-full of lessons, questions, activities, and inspiring quotations.  There are many examples of the writing being taught contained in the book, and the student is asked questions about the examples.
Jacob has been working through the persuasion chapter.  Amazingly, there hasn't been one complaint from him about this book.  (My kids are not afraid to share their dissatisfaction with the curricula we use.)  The lessons are short enough to not be cumbersome, giving the student the feeling of small successes that build upon each other.  The ideas for the essays are interesting, and the student is given the option of choosing something else if he/she doesn't like the topic.
When I asked Jacob what he thought about this writing program, he said, "I liked how it was planned out.  There were definitely some good writing techniques in it.  I can't think of anything negative in it.  I think it teaches the techniques well."
I asked him if he learned from it, and he said, "Yes, I learned different ways of writing reports than I knew before."
The Teacher's Guide was helpful for me.  Ms. Watson provides guidelines for grading.  These pages are entitled, "How to Earn an A", "...B," "...C," and so on.  Explanations for content and grammar grading are given as are scoring rubrics.  A guideline for proofreading marks is provided.  I hadn't thought of this until now, but I think I'd like to have Jacob use the marks.  I have him proofread and fix things, but it might be really helpful for him to use the marks to really look for specific things and be able to label them.  This would, I think, help him to be more aware to avoid the mistakes while writing in the future.
There are do and don't lists for each type of writing.  These are found in the student book but are easily accessible to the teacher in the teacher's guide.  Answers to all of the questions that are in the student book are provided.   Something that is in this guide which we did not have a chance to try is the "14-Minute Power Surge Program."  These are prompts that are divided into four per week from September through May (of course, you can use them according to any calendar).  The student is to take 14 minutes per prompt and choose their favorite one on Friday to proofread, edit, and hand in for a grade.
The student book, The Power In Your Hands: Writing Nonfiction in High School, sells for $39.98.  The Teacher's Guide sells for just $14.98.
I am thrilled with this writing curriculum.  Sharon Watson obviously put a lot of time and effort into putting this together.  She had the student in mind when creating this and did a fabulous job.  Jacob loves to write fiction, not non-fiction; so when he says he likes it, that is a real compliment.  We have a lot we haven't done yet.  I intend to have Jacob finish the book.  He will continue to learn and, hopefully, become an excellent non-fiction writer, as well as fiction.

Better Late Than Never...

We had just gotten back from a weekend trip late Monday night, so Tuesday was a blur.  Unfortunately, it was also my best friend's birthday, and he didn't get much acknowledgement.  I have felt bad about that, so I will try to make it up to him here.  My best friend is my husband of almost 19 years, John Bairen.

We met in college during the summer of 1991 while I was playing volleyball with my Christian fellowship group one Wednesday evening.  John had been walking around Pitt's campus looking for something to do.  He saw a group of people playing volleyball and decided to join us.  After a few weeks of playing volleyball and then leaving, he decided to join us in the fellowship hall of the church to hear the message that evening.

In the fall, we went out a couple of times, but I was not looking for a serious relationship at that point. A short time after that, he became a Christian.  During the next two years, we became very good friends.  We had a lot of friends in common and went on fall retreats together and work projects with our group.  In March of 1993, nine of us students went on a work project to Camden, New Jersey.  We stayed in the fellowship hall of a church that week and worked with their kids during the day and did some construction projects.  The day we were scheduled to leave Camden, a blizzard hit.  In a borrowed van, eight of us piled in and decided to risk the drive (one girl went home the night before).  We had no more food where we were staying and needed to try to get home.  We drove as far as old exit 22 on the PA Turnpike (currently exit 298), only 52 miles.  Thankfully, there was a Holiday Inn right off of that exit, and they had one room.

For three days, eight students slept in that room together.  Four in the group wanted to go back to Pitt in the worst way.  The other four of us were making the best of the situation.  We sang songs while sitting by the fireplace in the lobby while John played his guitar.  We walked down the road to the only restaurant that had any food left.  It also only had one employee available, so John actually pitched in and helped her out while we were there.  He still does things like that to this day.  His compassion for people and desire to help others was one of the biggest things that attracted me to him.  He has a really big heart for people.

The week after we got back, I walked up to him after our fellowship group was over.  A short time before that, I had made the decision to never again ask a guy out, but I just couldn't stick to it this time.  I wanted him to ask me, but it didn't seem like he was going to.  When I approached him, he did ask.  I found out later that he had the "once bitten, twice shy syndrome" because I had stopped dating him before.

We dated for two months and then got engaged.  I knew after one week that I was supposed to marry him.  We had become such good friends over the preceding two years, and he had become an amazing man of God.  Some of our friends thought we were crazy for dating only two months before getting engaged, but we knew each other so well.  We were married on June 11, 1994.  We've been together more than 20 years now, and we are still learning about each other.

I loved our wedding!  We did so many things that were different than the norm for weddings.  Our vows were from Ruth 1:16,17: “Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord deal with me, be it ever so severely, if even death separates you and me.”  When we exchanged rings, we touched the rings to the thumb, pointer, and middle finger before placing them on our ring fingers.  As we touched each finger, we said, "in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost. Amen."  I had seen this in the movie, The Scarlet Pimpernel, and loved the idea, so we used it.  We also gave our candles which were used to light the Unity Candle to our in-laws.  It was an awesome day!!

We have moved six times since getting married, the last move putting us in Florida.  He had had a dream to move south.  He waited on God and me to share his dream.  We have three beautiful children.  He had a dream to homeschool them.  Again, he waited on me to share his dream.  We are now ending our tenth year.  As I look back now, I can see how God gives John wisdom about different things but also gives him patience to wait for me to "see the light."

I often take John for granted and for that I am sorry.  Perhaps many married couples get used to each other and too busy with life and don't honor their spouse or give them the accolades they deserve.  I want to do that now.  I want everyone to know how much I love John Bairen and how grateful I am that God put him in my life.  I have learned more about God through him.  I have learned about myself through our marriage.

He encourages me to do things I've not tried before.  He encourages me to do the things I love to do.  He provides for our family by going to work every day.  He has done amazing things in his career since we got married.  He started out doing campus ministry and raising his full support, which amounted to $200 a month.  Neither one of us very much liked asking people for money, so we weren't very good at it.  I did work full time while he did campus ministry for four years.  Once our first child was born, however, I quit my job, and John went to work.  He had taught himself about computers and landed a job in tech support for a local company where a friend of his worked.  Since that time, he has continued to climb the ladder of success, so to speak, by gaining much of his knowledge on his own.  He is so gifted when it comes to computers.  I'm glad I have him to help me when I need it and don't have to call the Geek Squad.

I look forward to many more years with John as we grow in our marriage and we raise our kids together.  I am blessed beyond measure!!

Progeny Press Review

We have been using Progeny Press study guides for years and absolutely love them.  The company was founded by Michael and Rebecca Gilleland who continue to edit and review each new study guide that is created to be sure it adheres to the guidelines and mission of the company.  There are over 100 study guides for all ages but, for the purposes of this review, we were able to use the Golden Goblet Study Guide for middle school and Beowulf Study Guide for high school.  We had Beowulf at home to use with a different study and borrowed The Golden Goblet from the library.
I chose The Golden Goblet because Paige, my 5th grader, loves Egyptian history.  She has not enjoyed this book, however.  Not enjoying the book makes it a little bit more difficult to enjoy the study.  I had been making her read it by herself.  In the past week after discussions with some friends, I am going to be changing the way I do school with Paige, so I will be reading the book along with her.  In an effort to catch up to where she is, I read the book on our trip from Florida to Pennsylvania.  I actually really enjoy the book.  Now, I know this review is not about the book but the study guide.  Since I myself have now read the book, the study guide makes more sense to me.  I have always liked the fact that there is a section on vocabulary for each chapter.  It is presented in different ways so as not to become boring.  Sometimes there is a crossword puzzle.  Sometimes they look at different parts of speech like antonyms and synonyms.  Paige doesn't like looking up the vocabulary words so, when one of her vocabulary words shows up in life when not related to school, I like to remind her that she just learned it in her study guide.  This helps her see the application of these vocabulary words.
The guides always have questions about the chapter that has been read for reading comprehension.  Paige was able to answer these questions pretty well for the most part.  She fared much better when I allowed her to read the questions before she read the chapter.  That way she could pay attention while she read and look for the answers and write them down right away.
There are many other activities in the study guides besides vocabulary and reading comprehension questions.  The "Dig Deeper" section has the student look up various Scripture references and tie them to something read in the book such as when passages about lying are discussed. Sections on Egyptian culture allow the student to learn more about the history than just what they learn by reading the fiction book.  There are also notebook projects.  The student is encouraged to make a notebook and include things like extra vocabulary, learning about Egyptian gods and goddesses, the dress, hairstyle, preparations for the dead.  Optional activities include some fun ideas like visiting a jewelry store or an artist's studio to see how they make gold jewelry like Ranofer did in the book.
The CD and instant download are each $16.99.  The printed book is $18.99.  The physical book, The Golden Goblet, is also available for $6.99.  The answer key is included with each study guide.
Jacob, my 9th grader, used the Beowulf study guide.  He actually likes the book and understands it even though it is in the form of poetry.  There is a great deal of information related to the historical context of Beowulf at the beginning of the study guide.  The lessons are broken down by lines.  Vocabulary is included at the beginning of each and is presented in different ways, including word searches and crossword puzzles.  Students are asked questions.  They are given the chance to analyze various literary elements such as alliteration in the reading.  Scripture references are included in the high school study guides as well.  Optional activities include such things as researching Anglo-Saxon "rune markings" and researching dragons.
There are so many different things included in these study guides.  There is no need to do everything, but there are certainly enough activities to keep the student busy and learning.
The high school study guides are a little bit more expensive.  The CD and instant downloads are $18.99, and the printed booklet is $21.99.  The answer key is included as well.
I have used the downloadable forms of these study guides.  In my opinion, paying the few extra dollars would be worth it to not have to use your own ink to print these out.
I have learned that four high school study guides count as 1 credit for high school.  I have already purchased our four study guides for next year.
Not all of the books are Christian in nature.  You need to be aware that some books have swear words and vivid descriptions.  I would be sure to check out the book first before you commit to buying one of the study guides.  The study guides, however, are above reproach and discuss topics with a biblical perspective.
I highly recommend these study guides to anyone looking for a great literature approach to their language arts' program.

Knowledge Quest - Sacagawea Review

Knowledge Quest is well known for their outstanding maps that tie into history.  I have used a number of these in the past.  What is not well known, at least not to me, is that they also have a lot of resources for learning about history that don't include maps.  One such resource is The Complete Sacagawea Saga e-Book.  This e-book is actually four books written by Karla Akins combined into one volume.  The four individual volumes are entitled, Stolen, Passage, Survival, and Equal.

I read this book aloud with my daughter.  Because we have learned quite a bit about Sacagawea during her homeschooling years, she was not thrilled to be learning about her again.  I, however, really liked this book.  It provides a perspective of her life that I'd never heard before.  To me, she was simply the female Native American with a son she carried around with her while she helped Lewis and Clark on their expedition.  Not much else had been taught about her beyond that from the many resources I'd used in the past.

Even though this book was historical fiction (specific conversations couldn't be known), it painted quite a picture of what life was probably like for Sacagawea, from having been kidnapped to work as a slave, to being sold to be a wife, to finding a purpose in helping Lewis and Clark.  This book has helped to make her more of a real person to me than just a character from history.

At just $3.99 for the complete saga, it is an extremely affordable addition to any homeschool library.  I wish I had had this when we first learned about Sacagawea.  It would have added such a depth to the story of Lewis and Clark.  I didn't feel there was anything in the book that needed to be passed over based on my daughter's age.  Ms. Akins tactfully discusses the parts of Sacagawea's life that were (I would think) traumatic to her such as her being sold to Charbonneau to be a wife and then becoming pregnant with her son.  I did not have to explain anything beyond what was in the story, nor did I have to worry that I'd be reading something inappropriate.

Be sure to check out all of the wonderful products available through Knowledge Quest.
 
 

Leadership Garden Legacy Review

Leadership Garden Legacy is a company owned by Debra and Terry Slover.  Debra has a unique story which she honestly shares to help empower today's youth to realize their leadership potential.  She does this in a very simple way - comparing a real garden to a leadership garden - in her book, Growing My Leadership Garden.

There are many different products offered by this company.  We had the opportunity to review all of the products in the Family Empowerment Tool Kit.  The following four products are geared towards kids 5-12 - U.N.I.Q.U.E. Kids: Growing My Leadership Garden, The Leadership Garden Guidebook, U.N.I.Q.U.E. Kids: Growing My Leadership Garden Activity Guide, the MP3 audio book download of Growing My Leadership Garden.  The U.N.I.Q.U.E.: Growing the Leader Within, the MP3 audio download of the book, and The Leadership Garden Guidebook: Cultivating Organic Experiences, actions, and results that will empower you and those around you paperback workbook are geared towards kids 13+ through adults. (U.N.I.Q.U.E. stands for Understanding, Nurturing, Inventive, Quality, Unstoppable, Expression.)

I read through Growing My Leadership Garden with my 7th and 5th graders (boy and girl).  I was afraid it was going to be a story they'd be too old for, but I was mistaken.  It is such a simple language that my 7th grade son totally understood the deep meaning of what was being discussed even though it was in the setting of talking animals.  The steps to developing leader qualities are explained metaphorically through the idea of a garden.  The negative attitudes and thoughts and bad behaviors are weeds that need to be pulled.  The positive attitudes and correct responses are the plants we want to tend to and cultivate.  As we'd read, Nate would have epiphanies, "Oh, so I should..."  He struggles with "weeds" in his life, so this gave him a different perspective.  I wasn't expecting this book to have as much of an impact on him as it did.

Some of it seemed a bit strange as I read through it.  The conversations the animals would have aren't the typical type you'd find in animals-talking-to-each-other books.  They used words with very deep meaning you wouldn't expect animals to use, if they could talk.  There was one thing that seemed a bit out of place since there didn't seem to be much mention of environmentalism throughout the book.  In chapter 4, there is a point when they talk about protecting bushes and applying an eco-friendly fungicide.  That was probably the thing I disliked most about the book.

The adult version, Growing the Leader Within, seemed to be just like the kid book when I first started reading it, but in each chapter there is a lesson that speaks to the adult.  Debra includes some of her own life experiences.  She is open and honest.  I could relate to a lot of what she was saying because of my own life experiences.  I played the victim for a very long time and developed quite a negative attitude about myself, some of which I am still working to get rid of.

The Leadership Garden Guidebook is a great resource.  There is a lot of beneficial reading in this book that isn't in the Growing My Leadership Garden book.  There are questions to answer and the space in which to answer.  It was helpful for my son to be able to get his thoughts down on paper.  I don't recall that he ever complained about doing the work in the book.  It would be helpful to have a book for each of your children who is going through the program.  I had my daughter answer her questions in a notebook of her own.

Each of the products are available separately and in different forms, as well as being available as a bundle as mentioned above.  They can be found in the Empowerment Store.

U.N.I.Q.U.E. Kids: Growing My Leadership Garden

paperback ... $18.95

audio book MP3 download ... $8.95

audio book on 2 CDs ... $18.95

eBook ... $8.95

U.N.I.Q.U.E. Kids: Growing My Leadership Garden Activity Guide & Journal

PDF download ... $8.95

U.N.I.Q.U.E.: Growing the Leader Within

paperback ... $18.95

hard cover collector edition ... $26.95

audio book CD ... $24.95

audio book MP3 ... $24.95

audio book MP3 download ... $14.95

The Leadership Garden Guidebook

paperback ... $18.95

PDF download ... $8.95

Tool Kit Bundles

Family Empowerment Took Kit ... $76.25

Adult Empowerment Took Kit ... $47.57

Kid's Empowerment Tool Kit ... $33.17

If interested, you can become a lifetime member for $30.00.  The benefits of membership are free MP3 download of U.N.I.Q.U.E.: Growing the Leader Within, 11% discount on all products and services, your own profile page to share stories and network, among other things.

Leadership Garden Legacy is offering the TOS Community a "Spring Special Discount" of 20% on all of their Empowerment Tools, which is in addition to the already discounted Tool Kit bundles.  Simply enter the code - TOS-SS20D - upon checkout.  This offer expires on May 31, 2013.

The God Who Ordered the Universe...

       - planned out every intricate detail of who I am before I was born

       - loves me

       - sent his only Son to earth to die an extremely painful and horrible death so that I could have a relationship with Him, the God who created me.  (Do you get this?  He created us.  We sinned.  We should be begging for a way to be back in his favor, but He provided the way for us.  He died the death we deserve.)

       - thinks about me every day

       - wants to hear from me every day

       - wants the best for me

       - forgives me

       - has given me 3 beautiful children whom He also planned every intricate detail of who they are

       - has given me a wonderful, loving husband
     
       - has given me wonderful parents

       - promised that He will never leave me nor forsake me

       - has given me super friends from both PA and Florida who love me for me and are always encouraging me

       - is constant

       - has given me a purpose for my life

       - loves you and wants to have a relationship with you as well.  

At Bible study last night, God spoke to me through Psalm 139, verse 16, which says, "...all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be."  I allow myself to be held captive by fear.  I cannot control anything, especially not death.  I need to stop living in fear and live the life God planned for me to live.  The God who ordered the universe has got my back.  He is with me always.  How silly it is to fear anything when the great and awesome God knows everything about you, wants the best for you, is always teaching you and growing you, is always blessing you even in ways you can't see, and on and on.  Have faith!!  If there is anything worth putting your faith in in this world, it is God.  He has proven himself time and time again, not that He has to, but He does it for our sake.  That is love.

The list above is definitely not exhaustive.  Try making your own.  Count the blessings!!

Supercharged Science Curriculum Review

Supercharged Science is a remarkable online science program created by Aurora Lipper, a highly educated scientist who wanted to put together a program to help kids learn science in a fun way.  The program includes thousands of experiments, teleclasses, exercises, and text reading.  It is called e-Science.  If you want your child to truly enjoy science and understand how it applies to everyday life (like baking bread in the unit on chemistry), you should give this program a try.

There are currently 19 active science topics and one coming soon.  Students can learn about mechanics, motion, matter, energy, sound, astrophysics, chemistry, light, electricity, magnetism, thermodynamics, electronics, life science, and biology. There are also "chapters" on the scientific method, science fair projects, mathematics, parent resources, and science e-camp.

After choosing a topic, there is an overview of the chapter and a link to a teleclass.    These teleclasses are a lot of fun.  We participated in a few of these where the kids sat at the table with the computer so they could watch videos as they listened to Aurora and performed the experiment right along with her.  I remember doing an experiment where the kids made glow-in-the-dark slime using a highlighter.  Aurora creates experiments I would never think of and that are fun for the kids. Most of the supplies needed are objects you'll find around the house or the grocery store. Some experiments require special items, but these items will be used in other units so that you can get your money's worth, but you don't need to buy any specialty items if you choose not to do those experiments. The choice is yours. In the unit on matter, one of the experiments is making moon sand. No need to spend a ton of money on Moon Sand at the toy store; a couple of household items and regular sand and you've got your own inexpensive moon sand. There is also an experiment for making rock candy crystals. I appreciate as well the way Aurora keeps safety in mind all the time.

In the upper right corner of the unit page, there is a table of contents.  Clicking on  "lesson plans" will bring up a PDF that lets the user know which grade the unit is geared towards, the materials which are required for the experiments (broken down by experiment), the objectives of the unit, vocabulary, reading, experiments, and exercises.  Clicking on each individual lesson brings up a video.  The reading for each individual lesson can be done directly from the website or printed out.  Additional reading and exercises for students in grades 9-12 are also included, if this is the subscription you have chosen. These additional pages are amazing to just peruse. I am amazed by the wealth of knowledge within the pages. Aurora is constantly adding to the program to make it better and better.

The K-8 science program is $37 per month.  The K-12 program is $57 per month. There is a 30-day money back guarantee.   Make sure you sign up for the free trial so that you can get a feel for the type of science education your child will be getting and how much fun they will have doing the experiments. We used this program years ago and still share experiments that we did with people to this day, especially the ones where we made plasma in our microwave and microwaved Ivory soap. So cool!

E-Science can be used as a stand alone science curriculum or as a supplement to other science curricula.  Conversion charts are supplied that help you to know which lessons in the e-Science program correspond to lessons in other science curricula.  Some of the other curricula for which conversion charts are available are Apologia, Bob Jones, Alpha Omega, Christian Kids Explore Creation, and Saxon Physics.

In my estimation, this is one of the best science programs available.  Aurora Lipper is passionate about science and about your kids learning so that they'll remember what they've studied.  She is always available to answer any questions that you may have and has gone above and beyond in terms of making the website user friendly. There are not many companies out there today that display the same level of commitment and integrity. 

Disorders of the Day

Manias

1.  Mythomania - I was flipping through the dictionary, Merriam-Webster to be exact, and came across this word.  It made me laugh.  I know people who are mythomaniacs.

Mythomania is an excessive or abnormal propensity for lying and exaggerating.

Can you think of anyone who suffers from this disorder?

2.  Anglomania - I suppose there could be a mania for any country.  This one is an pervasive interest in England or things English.

Are you an anglomaniac if you live in England?

3.  Clinomania - I know way too many people who suffer from this.  I think I do too.  It is an excessive desire to stay in bed.  It is considered a disorder.  Can you imagine?  There is even a website to help people who suffer from clinomania.

4.  Dromomania - I most definitely have this and am satisfying this mania next week.  It is the passion for traveling.

5.  Polkamania - I think wedding DJs have this, a craze for polka dancing.

So, do you have any of these disorders?  There are many more.  I will find you one.  ;-)  Hopefully we can find you some help as well.

I know my mom and dad have Hawaii islomania - obsession for islands.  The only cure for that, though, is actually going there.